Turn on potato mode: ESC → Display & Graphics → Optimize Settings → Optimize Settings for Performance
Turn off Sound: ESC → Audio → Audio Enabled off
Turn off Chat logging: ESC → Chat → Log Chat to File off
Minimize Local Chat window
Turn off or reduce brackets. This is a bit more complicated, turning off brackets completely can be done with Alt-Shift-Z but that reduces your spacial awareness a lot. Modifying brackets is a subject of a whole guide of it's own but one easy thing to do if you are using the Z-S overview pack is to select a bracket without drones. Open Overview settings → Overview Tabs → Bracket Preset and set * Brackets Combat/Targets/Friendly (-Dro) to your main combat tab. If you ever need to see drone brackets during a fight you can use Alt-Z to toggle between the showing All Brackets and the selected Bracket Preset.
Do NOT zoom in on the action. If possible look away into empty space, if not keep a zoomed out view.
Do no open any unnecessary windows, EVE has a 32bit client which means that if it needs to use more than roughly 4GB ram it will crash and opening for example the fitting window can easily bring it over this.